When we meet a prospective spouse, we often focus on what we can see — education, career, family background, appearance, and achievements. These things matter, but there is something else worth paying attention to: how you feel around the person.
Sometimes, our intuition notices subtle things before our conscious mind does — their tone, behaviour, respect for boundaries, or whether we feel comfortable being ourselves. A gut feeling can be an important signal, especially when something feels consistently uncomfortable.
But intuition should not replace thoughtful conversations and getting to know the person over time. Many people considering marriage find pre-marital counselling helpful for exactly this kind of clarity.
“Pause. Observe. Ask questions. Take your time.
— R Trainers and Motivators